MDEV-34940: Fix Item_func_collect inheritance

[DaveGosselin-MariaDB]

Creates new parent Item_sum_str for Item_func_group_concat and Item_func_collect, migrating shared methods from each of those latter classes to the former. Simultaneously, tighten up the method scopes.

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